Let’s be honest. Men in the church today are under attack. No matter why you’re here, I am sure this isn’t the first time you’ve tried to quit porn, fix your marriage, get in shape, connect with God or a number of other things you may be struggling with.

The first thing I want to say is that it’s not your fault. Men today are hiding and isolating because they don’t feel safe enough to share their struggles…or they don’t realize that other men have gone through the same pits or are currently going through the same pits.

But I want you to know that there are people just like you who have gone through exactly what you’re experiencing. No matter what you’re struggling with in your marriage, with your kids, with porn addiction, a body that’s breaking down and out of shape, or under massive pressure at the office.

No matter what you’ve tried in the past, no matter how long you’ve struggled, you can change. You can have a completely different life.

I’ve worked with Christian men who had struggled for decades and are now living with purpose and passion in their marriage, in their relationship with God - no more porn, no more hiding, no more struggling with not measuring up.

One thing that frustrates me so much is that in a lot of our churches, (not all of them) men don’t get much help. Especially men who are working hard, running businesses and have wives, kids, and a host of other responsibilities.

The typical church helps you address your spiritual life - but what about the pressure at work, at home, the struggle with your fitness or your porn addiction. But I don’t blame the church (I love the church!)…they just struggle with how to actually help men.

But listen, our wives, our bosses or employees, the church, the porn industry are not the real enemy. We know who that is and he has MUCH to lose from a man who lives in freedom and with purpose, passion, and power.

He loses control of your mind, of the shame he buries you under, he loses power of your eyes and the lusts he traps you in. Your relationship with your wife, with your kids, all of it completely changes for the good and your godly leadership flourishes.

HE HATES when men wake up and grow into the purpose they were created for. 

I love this quote from Charles Spurgeon: “The enemy may get a temporary advantage over us, but we are like men in prison with the door open; God will not let us be shut up, he always provides a way of escape.”

So that’s why I’m here. I want to be your guide and show you what worked for me back in 2018 when my entire life transformed.

And people ask me what has motivated me to help other brothers who are struggling. Because I know that each man who is a child of God has been called into the workplace, to lead a family, and to serve in his local church…and this man, given the opportunity, can be used by God to change the world. God has called you to do great things for HIM in and through the local church.

And when a man is isolating, hiding, and not fully engaged as a leader in the home and workplace, you can never fulfill your true calling.

I love this passage in 2 Timothy 2:20-22 

20 Now in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver but also of wood and clay, some for honorable use, some for dishonorable. 

21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from what is dishonorable, he will be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work.

22 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

This is you, brother. So get ready! 

My hope and prayer is that you will join the Modern Man of Valor brotherhood and open your eyes to the fact that YOU’RE NOT ALONE AND CHANGE IS POSSIBLE!

We are going to grow a movement that will spread from church to church as men WAKE UP and begin learning, living, and leading.