For the Man of God who wants to break out of painful patterns and live with power, passion, and purpose in the modern world.

Are you ready to be done with porn, grow rich in faith, and fulfill God's purpose for your life? Watch this video to find out how to become the Modern Man of Valor.

What you will find in our group is a committed band of brothers who encourage each other daily and whose hope is in Christ and the power of His gospel.

And our brotherhood will not only point you to Christ, but we will encourage you to fulfill God's calling on your life. We don't want to see any man of God waste their life.

The name of this group comes from what we see in Scripture as David's Mighty Men of Valor.

Today, more than ever, we need Modern Men of Valor who are equipped to fight sin, love their wives, lead their kids, and come alongside other brothers for the glory of God.

Join our Brotherhood, follow our Code, and You Will change your life forever.

Imagine NO MORE PORN...and living a life of FREEDOM and PURPOSE. It doesn't have to be difficult. Join us today and begin Your own journey to God's truest purpose for Your life.

Over the past year I have received numerous requests to do more than a podcast. Men want to talk with men who understand them! I remember that I didn't have anyone I could go to besides friends who had the same struggle or ones who never struggled!

And that's why I launched The Modern Man of Valor!

Here are some of the requests from brothers just like YOU who are looking for Godly accountability and help...

Men need a brotherhood to grow and become the man they were created to be.

Don't get trapped into thinking there is a quick fix out there that will...

---> Eliminate porn

---> Draw you closer to God

---> Strengthen your marriage

These things take time, commitment, and a willingness to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes.

To whoever has stumbled upon this page,

For the rest of your valuable time here, I want YOU to do 3 things:

‍1) Be completely honest with yourself about your current reality .

‍2) Forget everything you have been told about freedom from porn, leading your family, and having a personal ministry. Especially if it came from someone who has done none of the three above well.

‍3) Don't be quick to deem something 'unrealistic' just because you've struggled for years...maybe decades.

Read to the end. Take us up on our seemingly outrageous guarantee. And try not to laugh at our enrollment price (less than $1 a day).


First question: What is actually holding you back from living the life that is free of porn and growing daily in the truth and light of God's Word?

Let’s be honest. Men in the church today are under attack. No matter why you’re here, I am sure this isn’t the first time you’ve tried to quit porn, fix your marriage, get in shape, connect with God or a number of other things you may be struggling with.

The first thing I want to say is that it’s not your fault. Men today are hiding and isolating because they don’t feel safe enough to share their struggles…or they don’t realize that other men have gone through the same pits or are currently going through the same pits.

But I want you to know that there are people just like you who have gone through exactly what you’re experiencing. No matter what you’re struggling with in your marriage, with your kids, with porn addiction, a body that’s breaking down and out of shape, or under massive pressure at the office.

No matter what you’ve tried in the past, no matter how long you’ve struggled, you can change. You can have a completely different life.

I’ve worked with Christian men who had struggled for decades and are now living with purpose and passion in their marriage, in their relationship with God - no more porn, no more hiding, no more struggling with not measuring up.

One thing that frustrates me so much is that in a lot of our churches, (not all of them) men don’t get much help. Especially men who are working hard, running businesses and have wives, kids, and a host of other responsibilities.

The typical church helps you address your spiritual life - but what about the pressure at work, at home, the struggle with your fitness or your porn addiction. But I don’t blame the church (I love the church!)…they just struggle with how to actually help men.

But listen, our wives, our bosses or employees, the church, the porn industry are not the real enemy. We know who that is and he has MUCH to lose from a man who lives in freedom and with purpose, passion, and power.

He loses control of your mind, of the shame he buries you under, he loses power of your eyes and the lusts he traps you in. Your relationship with your wife, with your kids, all of it completely changes for the good and your godly leadership flourishes.

HE HATES when men wake up and grow into the purpose they were created for. 

I love this quote from Charles Spurgeon: “The enemy may get a temporary advantage over us, but we are like men in prison with the door open; God will not let us be shut up, he always provides a way of escape.

So that’s why I’m here. I want to be your guide and show you what worked for me back in 2018 when my entire life transformed.

And people ask me what has motivated me to help other brothers who are struggling. Because I know that each man who is a child of God has been called into the workplace, to lead a family, and to serve in his local church…and this man, given the opportunity, can be used by God to change the world. God has called you to do great things for HIM in and through the local church.

And when a man is isolating, hiding, and not fully engaged as a leader in the home and workplace, you can never fulfill your true calling.

I love this passage in 2 Timothy 2:20-22 

20 Now in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver but also of wood and clay, some for honorable use, some for dishonorable. 

21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from what is dishonorable, he will be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work.

22 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

This is you, brother. So get ready! 

My hope and prayer is that you will join the Modern Man of Valor brotherhood and open your eyes to the fact that YOU’RE NOT ALONE AND CHANGE IS POSSIBLE!

We are going to grow a movement that will spread from church to church as men WAKE UP and begin learning, living, and leading.

Wondering if Modern Man of Valor is for you?

It's for YOU if ANY of these apply:

  1. You're a man and a follower of Christ

  2. If you are struggling with porn (or any other addiction)

  3. You want more out of your God-given life

  4. You want to walk the journey with other brothers just like you

  5. You feel called to disciple men in the church but you're not entirely sure how

Here is what others have had to say.

Let me tell you what happens when you live in isolation and don't walk in the light of God's truth.

  • 1) You live in fear - In the back of your mind you are always wondering if you're going to get caught. Who is going to find out? You have to cover up your browser history and you're terrified if anyone grabs your phone. Fear keeps you from living in truth.

  • 2) You lie - Fear leads to lying. Because you feel that you can't tell the truth, you lie. You lie to yourself and you lie to others. These are lies of commission (lies you tell) and lies of omission (things you should say but don't). The biggest lie you tell yourself is that you can get things under control yourself...yet you never do. And so your isolation grows and your distance from the truth does too.

  • 3) You sedate - When you lie, the easiest relief is sedating with something that takes your mind off your struggles. This is why men turn to porn...even good Christian men. Other forms of sedation can be the gym, work, food, sports, social media, TV/Netflix, you name it... You may fill your mind and heart with whatever the world puts in front of you...and that will never lead to freedom.

  • 4) You live a fantasy - When the truth is hidden deep beneath fear, lies, and sedation, the only option is to live a life of fantasy. You go to church week after week and shake hands with everyone - "How are you? I'm good?" But you're not really good. This fantasy life keeps you distant from God and without real power to lead your family spiritually.

For the man who continues down this path, the end result will not be honoring to his wife, children, and those he's been called to lead.

This man winds up in an endless circle of insanity going back to the very thing he hates and never truly being able to grow beyond his problems.

Worse than that, he feels distant from God and gives up on growing a deep and meaningful relationship with Christ. He settles for a life void of mission and constantly feeling shame and regret.

It doesn't have to be like that.

What You Will Have Access To In Modern Man of Valor...

  • 1) Weekly Live Calls: Want answers to your biggest questions? Every week we'll have a live call where you can come in and ask questions, get answers, or just sit and listen. This is designed to help build community and trust in each other. Every brother in the Modern Man of Valor community has been vetted and agreed to live by the code - tell the truth. Everyone's privacy will be protected and you can join us live to enjoy fellowship with other men who are passionate about growing practical faith in God and being a part of a special brotherhood.

  • 2) New Training: We have developed step-by-step training that any man can follow and apply to their life. This course is designed for you to walk through at your own pace and complete every assignment on your way to becoming porn free. Each module leads you into a deeper understanding of the issue and the gospel-centered solution that every man of God needs.

  • 3) Family Leadership: One thing is clear from God's Word concerning your role in your family...YOU WERE CREATED TO LEAD. This means you cannot outsource your family leadership responsibilities to anyone else. Your wife and your children are looking to you to show them the way. Our community will provide support and guidance on how best to navigate godly leadership in the home...even if you've lost trust through porn or other forms of sedation. We will not make excuses, instead, we will take responsibility and move forward.

  • 4) Business and Finance: Leadership in business begins with leadership of yourself...then your family...then in your work. I have been a leader in a company that has grown from 7 employees in 2014 to over 400 today. I know the pressure that comes with building something big at work and still finding time to be the best husband and father possible. You will be challenged and grow your business mind in this community.

  • 5) Revealing Assessments: Want to know where you stand and what exactly you can improve? Our customized assessments will open your eyes to what's working and what's not working. Once you KNOW the truth, it's a matter of attacking the very thing that is keeping you from becoming the man God created you to be in your spiritual life (BEING), family life (BALANCE), physical life (BODY), and business life (BUSINESS). All four of these domains are meant to be stewarded to the glory of GOD.

I want to be one is going to do the work for you.

You must choose to WAKE UP and TAKE UP the responsibility to grow spiritually, mentally, and physically.

That's why this community is only for men of God who are ready for change to happen but they completely understand that the change they're seeking won't happen by accident.

Is it simple? YES.

Will it be easy? NO.

Will it be worth it? YES!

In a matter of months this man recognized the lies that were holding him back from a true and amazing relationship with the LORD.

How did he do it?

He didn't do it...the LORD did His work in Him because for the first time in years, he was willing to confront the very issues that were holding him back.

‍Fact: This is why The Man of Valor was created.

When I uncovered my own lies and how to attack them with the truth of God, I knew that I had to share it with other men who were just like me. And the best part of this brotherhood for me is seeing other men rise up and become the men of God HE created them to be.

If you want that...join us.

Do You Need A Guarantee To Join The Brotherhood?

Here's my guarantee.

  • 1) If You Join and Go ALL IN: You won't regret a single $1 of the ridiculously low $27/mo to be a part.

  • 2) If You Join and Go ALL IN: Your wife, your girlfriend, your family will see DRAMATIC changes in you within three months.

  • 3) If You Join and Go ALL IN: You will no longer be a slave to the dopamine dragon of porn.

  • 4) If You Join and Go ALL IN: You will be able to help other men just like YOU find freedom from porn and purpose in life.

If you haven't noticed already, this isn't about the money.

Yet, money is in some ways a measure of your commitment.

If money is your biggest hangup with not joining, then there is the FREE podcast - Porn and the Gospel.

Start there and join the brotherhood when you're ready.

Whichever path you choose, YOU must commit to betterment. No one will do it for you.

What Modern Man of Valor Will Give You...

Strategy Library

Everything you need to attack pornography and lust head-on. Proven ways you can identify and destroy the stronghold of porn and masturbation.

Updated and added materials each week...

Step-By-Step Roadmaps

We created a roadmap that any man can follow and apply to their life and situation. If you follow the plan and do the work, you will be amazed at the results in as little as 90 days. This will give you an opportunity to praise God!

30 Day Challenges

We have found that men who do not challenge themselves usually lower their standard to the bare minimum and live a sedated life. Our 30-day challenges will encourage you to live a life of purpose.

Personalized Help

Our live calls will help any man who joins and asks questions...but if you're not able to join, full recordings will be available to you.

New calls each week.


Join Men of God Just Like You Who Are Done With Hiding and Living In Fear

Here is the real truth - we're all messed up and struggle to live our TRUE calling in life.

We have bills to to to complete...not to mention the pressure to lead at home, lead at work, lead in the church! Sometimes we just pretend and go through the motions.

Does that sound familiar?

ATTENTION: Married Christian Men

Watch this free training on how YOU can get UNSTUCK and start living your life with purpose and passion today.

A short video to show you how to become The Man of Valor...

  • ...Without needing porn to sedate and hide

  • ...While growing intimacy in your marriage and leading your family with integrity

  • ...Without the constant yo-yo of on-again, off-again habits that get you nowhere except frustrated

Are you ready for more than just the 'Status Quo...the ordinary...the mundane?

Are You ready for freedom? Ready to rise up and become the man your family needs?

Watch this free training to learn more about The Man of Valor challenge for Christian men.

About Me

In 2013, I almost lost my marriage, my kids, and lost everything that is important to me. I did lose my ministry position in a non-profit that I founded and led. I was in a pit and had no idea how to get out.

After years of working on myself, my marriage, and my relationship with Christ, I began to share what was 'working' with other brothers who were stuck in their own pit like I was.

And in 2020 I launched Natural Porn Killer to help men battling porn and masturbation. Over time, it became Modern Man of Valor to help men holistically approach manhood across all four domains: Body, Balance (marriage and family), Being (spiritual leadership and intimacy with Christ), and Business.

As a man of God, YOU have been called to bear fruit in life and be a good steward of each of these domains. Join us today and become the man you were created to be.

What Brothers Are Saying

Hey Spencer, I am on a three week sabbatical but it’s hard for me to turn my mind off thinking about the church and thinking about how things can improve...your devotions and the things that you’ve sent me have been really refreshing to me and help me a whole lot and I really appreciate it.
Pastor Matt
We're not here by mistake, God knew we would be in this position before we arrived here. I can't say enough is gospel-driven. The heavy load I've been carrying is being removed and God's love is replacing it. For so long I've not made room for it but freedom is found in God's grace if we allow it.
I signed up because I was ready to be done with porn...I had struggled for so many years. I am thankful that this is 100% gospel-focused and has helped me draw closer to God. I now also understand how my past and porn are connected. Since I have started, I am porn free. I would encourage you to sign up today.

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